"Exploring the Unknown"

Let's take a look at this from a woman's perspective. Coming out of a divorce, we have to keep our guard up, especially if we were just recently cheated on. We tend to take things slow. According to womansdivorce, "Your first serious relationship after a divorce can feel like a breath of fresh air." It's not the easiet for any woman to let another man into their life after such rough times, whether it be cheating or just not getting along with one another. After some time has passed, things get a little easier and we tend to recognize our surroundings. The first man can make a woman feel so wanted and appreciated after a divorce. It may feel too good. It may not feel right first thing, but explore and keep your options open. Who knows, the next one you meet might actually be "the one."

Dating isn't necessarily your first option. Go out with some friends to a bar or the movies, have a good time. It not unusual for a woman to have many sexual affairs after a bitter divorce. So many emotions are buillt up to where you have no choice but to let loose. It's all a part of the healing process. Womansdivorce says it all. "This is a person that seems to be the answer to all your dreams. They're the "special boyfriends" that ease a divorced woman through the trauma - they're good to them; they listen to them; they're sensitive to their needs but never demanding; and they fulfill their sexual hunger." Have fun for now but be aware of all possibilities. Don't get yourself stuck in the same situation you were in before.

Don't be afraid to cut someone off though. If you aren't happy with the new relationship your in, be honest. Be the person your significant other wasn't when you were together. You can't hold back. You have nothing to lose. At this point, you just want to have fun, it's all about you, don't get caught up, and go with what your heart tells you. Happiness is key to success!

According to Dr. Laura Berman, "Dating is often a risky and adrenaline-pumping adventure, but when you date after divorce, hearts aren’t the only commodities on the line. Between kids, potential step-relations, money issues and exes, dating after divorce can be a tricky and stressful undertaking."

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